©2000 by Donna Cunningham, MSW
In 1981, after 15 years as a counselor and ten as an astrologer,
I became painfully aware of the deficits of both disciplines.
Both produce insight, and though many people need that type of clarity, I was
not seeing the kind of deep-seated change or even symptomatic
relief my clients deserved.
Since insight alone was
clearly not the cure, I explored alternatives and quickly
became fascinated with the flower remedies. In the nearly
20 years since then, I have seen them accelerate
psychotherapy and other forms of healing in remarkable ways.
Let me share five remedies I consider absolute essentials.
Look into them if you are a psychotherapist who wants to start including this
modality in your work--or a client who wants a shorter course of treatment.
(If you are new to the essence world, see our FAQ
for basic information on how to find them and use them.)
It is important to note that
these are not "magic bullets" that can cure anything and everything.
They cannot replace therapy or other healing modalities where they are
needed, nor can they substitute for psychotropic medication. However, in my professional experience,
they are strong catalysts that help people change their way of thinking about
areas they have been stuck in for years. They also facilitate a clearing
of emotional backlogs, so that these deeply-held triggers no longer
rule the individual's life.
ESSENTIAL ESSENCE #1--PINE: The remedy that sold me
on this type of healing early on was Pine, a remedy for guilt offered
by Bach, Healing Herbs, and other companies. So many people feel
unworthy because of a neurotic type of guilt, a guilt-on-the-hoof
that lies waiting for some transgression, real or imagined, to
make them feel badly about themselves. Many discuss
their guilt in sessions for years, hoping to let go of it and
to improve their sense of self-worth, but it stays with them
on almost a cellular level.
Pine quickly changes how people handle situations where they feel
guilty. If they do something that is less than admirable, they no
longer eat themselves up with guilt. No more the sick feeling
in the gut, the tossing and turning at night with it,
the dread of facing people who know about it. Instead they take
action. They make amends to the person they have harmed and
process the situation so that they learn from their mistakes.
They also gain a new perspective on issues and actions that
they felt ashamed about in the past, forgiving themselves
in the process.
After one or two dosage bottles,
the person experiences a new level of self-esteem and great
freedom from what may be a lifelong burden of guilt. As an
unexpected benefit, where family or peers might once have
played on the person's guilt as a way to manipulate and control,
this tactic no longer works. Even if a client never works with a single other remedy,
this one can bring immense relief from the burden of guilt.
ESSENTIAL ESSENCE #2--HOLLY: Dr. Bach considered this a
fundamental key to healing, in that Holly helps those who won't
or can't get better. They may be spiting themselves, or they may
be holding onto deep-seated hatred that leads them to sabotage
their own best interests. Self-sabotage may extend to undermining
the psychotherapy that they consciously want to succeed.
Dr. Bach
often said that if many efforts failed and nothing else was
effective, the person should be given Holly to "clear the case."
He meant that the underlying self-destructiveness could be shifted
by one to several bottles of Holly, here best taken as a single
remedy. (Look for an in-depth portrait of this important
remedy in our December, 2000, issue.)
ESSENTIAL ESSENCE #3--SUNFLOWER: Continuing with the important
therapeutic task of strengthening self-esteem, Sunflower is a
priceless and effective remedy made by the Flower Essence Society,
Alaskan Flower Essence Project, Pegasus, and others. Its end
result is a balanced sense of self-worth, in which clients
do not indulge in either self-abasement or its opposite--and often
unconsciously coexisting--state, arrogance. They have a healthy respect
for their own abilities and assets and, at the same time, acknowledge
the worth and contributions of others.
ESSENTIAL ESSENCE #4--DESERT EPHEDRA (Desert Jointfir): Every
therapist has clients who lack the capacity to protect themselves,
even to the extent of remaining in abusive relationships or exploitative
work situations long past the time they should leave. Numerous times, I have seen a
sustaining course of Desert Ephedra essence from Desert Alchemy help people
gain the resolve and strength to get out of damaging and even
dangerous situations. Note: this is not the same plant which is used (and abused) as a systemic stimulant -- that is Chinese Ephedra.
ESSENTIAL ESSENCE #5--STAR OF BETHLEHEM: Many of the modalities
discussed in this issue share a reliance on Star of Bethlehem by Bach
and Healing Herbs, for it is a key remedy for allowing body and soul
to release trauma. After a severe trauma or ongoing crisis, the
individual's entire being contracts in shock. That contracture in
the physical and energetic bodies does not release just because
the immediate danger is past. The person continues on red alert until
those other levels of being feel safe.
So many clients who have taken
Star of Bethlehem have experienced a profound relaxation of
that inner terror, although in serious trauma there is also a need
for gentle bodywork. (Paul Wyman's article on using Star
of Bethlehem in body work testifies to its deep-acting effects.)
It is nearly impossible to say which of these five remedies is
most important. I go around and around, one day thinking it is Star
of Bethlehem, another day voting for Pine. Fortunately, it is not
necessary to choose only one! Psychotherapists, you could consider hundreds of remedies,
according to the type of practice you have, but a great many of your clients
could benefit from one or more of the fundamental remedies above.
If you are a client, no doubt you can see how several of these
remedies could address long-standing issues and even speed up your own healing process. If you
rely on the stringencies of insurance coverage to pay for therapy, this can
be welcome news. Look into them!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Donna Cunningham, MSW is the coeditor of Vibration and a long-time
educator and writer in the field of flower remedies. Visit her Frequent
Contributor Page for her bio and more of her articles in
Vibration.
ART CREDITS: This background set was created
by Roxy at Autumn Web. Roxy has
an exquisite and varied collection of web page sets.
The World Wide Essence Society does not mean to imply any recommendation of nor give certification to any individuals or companies above. This article is provided purely for informational purposes. We ask consumers to make their own determination as to quality of the services and products offered above. This article is not meant to be advice, and the information is not meant to replace medical or psychological treatment.
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